Six years ago, I was on my way to a gathering of Presbyterian clergywomen here in the DC area. I was running late. I took several wrong turns and got lost. There was bad traffic. And I had baby Margaret in the backseat, who was letting me know how eager she was to get wherever the heck we were going.
We were both hungrumpy. Plus I was in that overwhelmed, sleep-deprived state. Maybe you know the one? I almost turned around and went home. But I didn't, and there was still plenty of food from Lebanese Taverna when I arrived.
After lunch, we went around and introduced ourselves. A friendly-looking woman I'd never met introduced herself as Ruth Everhart and said, "By way of networking, I would be interested in forming a group of writers. So if any of you write, talk to me after we're done here."
I got a sharp elbow in the ribs from the friend sitting next to me. After the meeting ended, I introduced myself to Ruth. Others did too. Before we left that day, we had a group of 5.
We are the Writing Revs. And I can say with near certainty that there would have been no book without them.
Now granted, Presbyterian clergywomen are a peculiar subset of society. Still, it's kind of amazing that it worked as well as it has. We didn't vet each other. We didn't try it out for a while. We just dove in and started meeting. Those original 5 met for quite a while. Sadly, one passed away. Two have moved away. Happily, others have joined us.
Ruth and two other Wrevs hosted an event for me yesterday at presbytery, and it was so delightful. Ruth wrote about it here at her blog. It's called "A Writing Group Can Wave Your Flag." It's a post about friendship and accountability and how hard it can be to promote our work, so it's nice to have others help you along.
Ruth was a great carnival barker: "Come in! Congratulate the author! Have a cookie! Buy a book!" I sold and signed and gave out post-it notes. I can't wait to reverse roles in November as we celebrate Ruth's book, Chasing the Divine in the Holy Land. Ruth's book is part travelogue, part theological memoir. It's funny and deep and eloquent.
I'm very glad I didn't give up on that clergy meeting six years ago.
And not just because my Wrevs make THE best cookies.